Have you ever wanted to “hammer” your boyfriend?
Sometimes, when you think back, you might find him adorably silly; while other times, when you recall, you find yourself getting more and more upset.
“When I had my first time with my boyfriend, he actually said my areola color is deep, which means I have a lot of sexual experience. Oh my! It was my first time! I didn’t know how to explain, and that day didn’t end well, and even now, our communication is still weird…
After reading this part, I felt heartbroken and wanted to knock some sense into this guy, also wanted to wake up this lady — your misunderstanding of the areola is really too deep!!
Calming myself down.
The areola colors
Many girls might have such questions:
“Why are others’ areolas so pink, and mine is so deep in color?”
“My areola isn’t pink enough, is it because of too much sexual life…”
Stop, stop, ladies, don’t worry, the color of the areola is inherent and has nothing to do with sexual life!
Different races, different skin colors, and different stages will show different areola colors, but these are generally the following colors:
With age, when ovarian function matures and ovarian hormone secretion functions mostly stabilize, pigment deposition and fat accumulation occur, causing the nipple and areola color to deepen, possibly appearing in color numbers 2~4.
If entering pregnancy and breastfeeding periods, hormone level changes further cause pigment deposition, the areola might present color numbers 5~6 (feels like doing a makeup recommendation).
So, the deep areola color is a normal body change; linking it with sexual experience is somewhat ignorant.
If it were really due to doi as many people think, wouldn’t it require 24-hour non-stop grinding? The color wouldn’t deepen; it would get skin problems first…
Reliable ways to get areola lighter?
You may say: I understand the logic, but I just want my areola lighter. Is there any reliable way?
Regrettably, there is not.
Whether it’s painting like a tattoo to cover or applying ointment to bleach, none can ensure 100% safety.
The techniques’ proficiency and material safety need assessment, especially because it involves the body. If there are infections, suppurating, or leaving scars, the one suffering would be oneself.
Instead of risking modification, better to accept it frankly.
Beauty has many forms, but ultimately it relies on “health.” Don’t hurt yourself for so-called “beauty.”
If the six colors of areolas were made into an eyeshadow palette, it would look fantastic, naturally looking good on the body too. It’s a special makeup given by genes. How about trying to like it?
When you genuinely like yourself, all the criticism around can’t harm you.
If your boyfriend indeed dislikes your areola color issue, just say “his color offends you too”, and tell him to get as far away as possible!
Do you love your breasts? Have the areola colors troubled you?
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